Long time married couples would be lying if they don’t agree to the fact that their initial few years of marriage felt like a Valentine’s day everyday and in the present scenario, Valentine’s day feels like a regular day, right? Am I right or am I right? Well, after being able to relate to this fact, you must be thinking that you are not that competent partner for our sweetheart, right? No, that is wrong. It is normal after being into a long-term marriage that you might not feel as executed to celebrate Valentine’s day as you used to.
However, you must play along and celebrate Valentine’s day to make your partner feel loved and special. No, I am not asking to get that teenager kind of spirit for the celebration, however, getting online Valentine gifts for your partner or planning a small surprise would be enough to keep the spark of your long-time married relationship alive. So, here are a few tips and ideas for all the married couples to celebrate Valentine’s day with your sweetheart.
Keep The Romance Alive:
I know that you and your partner have been together for over a long period of time, and gradually the romance starts fading away. No, that does not mean in any way that you are falling out of love with your partner. But, you can keep the romance alive by celebrating Valentine;s day, or getting flowers or gifts for your sweetheart randomly. Celebrating Valentine’s day even after years of marriage would help you spice up your relationship.
Plan A Chill Staycation:
“I need a break” is something that you and your partner might be telling to yourselves but not to each other. This Valentine’s day, plan a staycation to a peaceful destination and get rid of all the stress and baggage of responsibility. Keep your hearts out in front of each other, be in a chill mode and enjoy the stay individually then only you would be able to enjoy each other’s company.
A Hand-Written Letter:
What is the most beautiful thing you think you could do in your relationship? Well, in my opinion, it is expressing your love and feelings to your partner even after all the years of being together. You can express your love and feelings vocally or by writing them a letter but it is the communication and transparent expression that keeps a relationship healthy. Also, why I have specifically mentioned a handwritten letter here is because in this era of digitization, I want you to be an old school romantic and believe me, there is no better way to express your love to your sweetheart. You BAE would definitely keep the letter all safe and secure for the rest of their life. Note: To make things a bit more romantic and spiced up, get a Valentine cake online and make your letter giving presentation look totally impeccable.
Go Shopping Together:
Well, this is a trump move for all the men out there to woo their wives. You all know how badly you guys suck at shopping and this fact makes your lady feels go mad at some point of time, right? So, this Valentine’s day, it is time to sacrifice a little and go on shopping with your lady and show equal interest while your wife shops. Believe me, this move of yours would definitely melt your wife’s heart.
Must Spend More Time Together:
If you really cannot make special arrangements for your sweetheart on Valentine’s day since it is totally not your cup of tea, it is alright your partner has been with you for a long time now and he or she might understand you. However, the only thing that you can pull off easily is that you can take time out of your schedule no matter how crazy it be, spend the entire day if possible with your sweetheart and let the things go in the flow if you haven’t come up with any special arrangement for the occasion.
So, are you ready to give complex to all the younger couples of this generation by setting couple goals with your sweetheart this Valentine’s day? Make your marital bond stronger and your Valentine’s day celebration full of love and affection.