At times when in relationship you often feel like you are enjoying each moment of your life. One can actually feel the presence of their partner around them. Many people also celebrate Valentine’s day with Valentine gifts and many other special gestures. Things seem quite amazing, even when they aren’t. There is a misinterpretation that relations means holding out perfection. Many couples cling to it, and that becomes the cause of relationship failure. Some settle down to breaking up with each other instead of adjusting.
What do you think about love? Isn’t it an amazing mess? Indeed, you may fumble over mistakes, and consider yourself a poor fellow who has messed up inner feelings.
Something Truly Out Of The World
It’s true that love doesn’t need to be perfect. It hides deep emotions, and sometimes we have to find it by dragging out our negative vibes. It is just a four-letter word but carries a deep meaning which can’t be expressed in words. Many situations in life come and go providing the illustration of love in different forms.
It’s Not A Bookish Emotion
Everyone believes that love should look like the way it has been presented in novels. That clearly means that you should never put a single question over it, and you must not carry any doubt in context to it. Just like the stories written in the books or showcased in movies, you may want to ride off with your partner on a horse towards sunset. The bookish stories are not as messy as in real life. Love is messy, vulnerable, and imperfection!! It’s you who is flaunting the part of yourself that is not beautiful. Love means loyalty in ugliness, nights that are not romantic, situations that need moral and financial support. It means the sleepless nights that you actually experience. Sometimes, your love sounds like your favorite song, but not always!!! I am not against it, nor I am saying fireworks don’t prevail. You have to understand that fireworks are not the only thing that matters. There are so many things which you have to consider apart from it.
It’s A Beautiful Frustration
Love is inadvertently farting during sex. It’s an embarrassing story that people discuss at family events or parties. Affection is choosing to stay in it by putting in all the efforts you can put at a time. It’s a feeling that says “ I Love You, I Need You,” even when things are going tough. If you have found someone with whom you want to experience the reality of relationship, then you have to pass through frustration and error, and that is called Love Mess. It will have augmented arguments and feelings that are not always good ones. Just like any part of life, love is meant to be layered.
Instead of trying to convert a bookish love story into reality, start enjoying the actual human being you are with. Whether you like it or not, you have to go through love once in your life. It can build you up or break you badly. Sometimes, you don’t want to do a particular work, but you have to do it just because your partner loves it. Experience this emotion because love is an incredible mess!