Were you brought up with a crazy sibling? If yes then you would definitely relate to this article. People who have siblings and have grown up facing every phase of their adulthood with their siblings tend to be more emotionally and mentally stronger than the individual who is a single child in the family. Well, no, it’s no competition. However, it is a fact that I would be discussing here in this article. Now, for those who have siblings and never realised how grateful they were to have a sibling, let me pop this bubble for you too. Yes, siblings do fight. I mean they fight a lot. Or, if your sibling made you feel less loved one in the family or might have exposed your secrets to your parents, then, you undoubtedly think of them as devils, right? Yes, they are devils however, you must also notice the halo they wear. Despite all the love-hate relationships you share with your sibling, you cannot live without them and also half of the credits of your coolness goes to them. That’s why you always hunt for the best rakhi gifts for them whenever Raksha Bandhan is around the corner, right? Let’s check out how your siblings have played an important role in making you emotionally and mentally more stable than others.
You Are More Adaptive:
Well, when you have one or more siblings in your house or if you are putting up in a joint family, then, it is pretty sure that you are more of an adaptive person in nature. It is because when you grow up with children almost (may and may not be of your age group), you learn to adapt to the environment as you learn and observe more in that atmosphere. Whereas, a single child is less adaptive as he or she has been doing things as per their own desire whereas you have been doing things keeping others in your mind, right?
Adjustment Comes Handy:
Yes, adjustment is of the most highlighted traits found in the people who have shared their childhood with their siblings. Carrying out arbitrary activities at home when your sibling is there is not possible. You have to adjust a lot which eventually becomes very helpful for you when you become an adult. Your power of adjustment can be observed when you step out of your house. To quote you an example. Remember all those hostel days when some of your friends struggled real hard to adjust with others in the hostel, whereas for you it was seriously no task. Not just in the hostel, you adjust to your environment quite effortlessly and believe me, this trait may be loved and adored by many.
You Tend To Become Socially Considerate:
You already are familiar with the scenario of what it is like to grow up with children of your age. You are quite aware of the mindset of others. So, it is possible that you and your siblings may have together faced situations like emotional breakdown, heartbreak, stress or anxiety. So, you tend to become more socially considerate as you are likely to understand people’s emotional state of mind easily. Honestly speaking, a socially considerate person is a blessing since there are very less people with this trait left in this world now.
Positivity & Liveliness:
There must have been those odd times, when your sibling might have helped you to get out of your heart break phase or vice-versa? Yes, that’s the source of positivity found in your personality. We tend to learn from our beloveds. So, when your sibling was there to pick you up from your downfall, making you a positive and lively person in and out, it becomes one of the most attractive traits of your personality.
Humour & Wit:
Having been brought up with siblings almost of my age group, I know what it is to deal with all the sarcasm and wit. However, altely, I have come to this conclusion, people having siblings are more hilarious, humorous and witty in nature than others. This is because we have been dealing with wit, sarcasms and puns right from our childhood with our siblings. So, if you get a lot of compliments for being funny, do not forget to share the credits with your siblings too.
So, most of you (people with siblings) can relate to these traits from your personality, right? Now you know that your siblings have played a major role in moulding your personality this way making you a much more desirable and admirable person. So, this Raksha Bandhan, appreciate or thank them, of course, gifts for rakhi are something which will definitely help you do that. If you and your siblings happen to stay in different cities, send rakhi at their doorstep because distance cannot hamper such strong relationships, right?